Comments on: Curious https://shepline.com/2005/12/01/curious-4/ author | illustrator | digital designer Wed, 10 Apr 2013 12:36:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.4 By: Thomas https://shepline.com/2005/12/01/curious-4/#comment-2045 Thu, 01 Dec 2005 21:09:40 +0000 http://journal.shepline.com/?p=1220#comment-2045 In reply to applecatching.

And once again, you prove why it is that I like and respect you.

I hope that I don’t fall into the traps of which you speak (although doubtless we all do from time to time as we are, after all, only human), but I think it is good to be reminded of these things from time to time.

You are right it goes both ways. All of it.

]]> By: applecatching https://shepline.com/2005/12/01/curious-4/#comment-2044 Thu, 01 Dec 2005 21:01:16 +0000 http://journal.shepline.com/?p=1220#comment-2044 I guess it depends to some extent on how you define ‘nice’. I think many kind, generous men *do* ‘get the girl’. What women don’t like, generally, is insipidity (is that even a word??) – sometimes ‘nice’ can be a tactful way of saying ‘dull’, and no one wants to be with a dullard 🙂

But it does work both ways – not so much a question of ‘niceness’, but a disappointing number of men seem to be conditioned to be attracted only to conventionally attractive women…And that works both ways too, but – based on what I see among people I know – I think women seem more prepared than men to forgive a few physical ‘imperfections’ in their partner…Just an observation 😉

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